Fix TraceStateBuilder.remove corrupting the builder when the same key is removed twice

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Fixes #8612

Description

• ArrayBasedTraceStateBuilder.remove() decremented numEntries without checking whether the value was already null, so removing a key twice drove the counter below the real count.
• build() trusts numEntries in three places, so the drift leaks a {a=null} entry, silently drops live entries, or throws ArrayIndexOutOfBoundsException.
• Mirrors the sibling put() (same class, line 74-78), which already does this check; first removal is unchanged.
• No in-repo caller, but TraceStateBuilder is stable public API for external instrumentation and vendor propagators. The silent data loss contradicts the no-op contract of the remove(String) Javadoc ("if it is present") and of removeNotPresent(), and is reachable via reuseBuilder().
• Same defect shape as Fix PooledHashMap dropping live entries when an entry is removed during forEach #8499 (PooledHashMap dropping live entries).

Testing done

• Added TraceStateTest#removeTwice, #removeTwice_KeepsRemainingEntry, #removeTwice_KeepsRemainingEntries for one, two, and three entries. All three fail without the fix; 41 pass with it.
• ./gradlew :api:all:check — passed, 504 tests.
• No signature change (package-private class): apidiff unchanged.
• CHANGELOG.md ## Unreleased → ### API entry added.

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✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 91.64%. Comparing base (09d6c17) to head (d24559d).

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